Are you a cycle breaker?

So much hype around this term yet many of us are not aware of what it exactly means. It is a psychological term that actually means a person who breaks the cycle of generational trauma, cultural patterns and harsh parental norms by becoming aware of the toxic traits being carried out in the family, gettingContinueContinue reading “Are you a cycle breaker?”

One Small Gesture

There are enormous ways to make someone feel special and then there are some small gestures that have a lasting impact. We women, go through a journey of marriage, and motherhood and cover many important milestones in our lives only to realize that a pat on the back, a few words of appreciation; a gentleContinueContinue reading “One Small Gesture”

I Am My Biggest Inspiration!

Often times we feel worthless and insignificant when we analyze the circumstances in our lives and how people always disappoint us at every step of our existence. Feeling distressed and miserable is not a lack of ‘Iman’ as many would point out. To be human, to feel human-like emotions, to cry, to be anxious, toContinueContinue reading “I Am My Biggest Inspiration!”

What is our worth?

It is exhausting to make an identity in this overwhelmingly competent world. Content bombardment often overpowers our true individuality and makes us forget our whole and sole purpose in life. Never has information been so accessible with so many subjects that are talked about and discussed today, we overlook what our religion actually preaches andContinueContinue reading What is our worth?

Compassion and Consideration- the classic characteristics of a true Muslim

How simple are some concepts in the world, yet how thought-provoking and diverse are the emotions a person experiences in his lifetime! The vicious circle called ‘Life’ has proven time and again that existence is only worth if it’s made worthy. Islam has taught us some great qualities, ‘Empathy’ being one of the best virtuesContinueContinue reading Compassion and Consideration- the classic characteristics of a true Muslim

This is not the ultimate life

Life is a journey, not the final destination. Misery in this world exists but nothing is permanent in this world, not even this world. Interrogation with yourself in the midst of vague vapors is so important that we do not lose ourselves in replication of some unchaste dreams. It is natural to sulk in gloomyContinueContinue reading This is not the ultimate life

Treat the new member as a blessing and not as a threat

Before we place our feet in an unknown territory, let us understand the concept of ‘actual’ marriage. Yes the word ‘actual’ is not by default here. After all the pompous functions, preparations and celebrations, the actual marriage begins. Every relationship is built on expectations and there is nothing wrong in that. Just that the expectationsContinueContinue reading Treat the new member as a blessing and not as a threat

Desire is Destruction

We always have something or someone to blame when things go wrong in our lives; that’s so evidently perceptible in human nature. Saints or no saints- we all get drenched once in a while in guilty charges of human aspirations and mistakes oftentimes unforgivable. We need a third party to blame as we cannot holdContinueContinue reading Desire is Destruction