Treat the new member as a blessing and not as a threat

Before we place our feet in an unknown territory, let us understand the concept of ‘actual’ marriage. Yes the word ‘actual’ is not by default here. After all the pompous functions, preparations and celebrations, the actual marriage begins. Every relationship is built on expectations and there is nothing wrong in that. Just that the expectationsContinue reading "Treat the new member as a blessing and not as a threat"

Stand up for yourself

Women since a very young age are taught to behave in a certain manner, are highly discouraged to express what they feel and are not allowed to stand up for something they believe in. Islam has never asked us to suppress women folk. Men sure are the caretakers but women are a symbol of vitalityContinue reading "Stand up for yourself"

Do we teach Children or Children teach us?

Parenthood is such a phenomenal journey of learning, sharing and exploring new things every day. Adulthood is just an extension of childhood. Then comes marriage; which is a phase where we actually realize that the world is indeed a serious place to be and commitment is the rightful key. But parenthood is a diversion fromContinue reading "Do we teach Children or Children teach us?"

Desire is Destruction

We always have something or someone to blame when things go wrong in our lives; that’s so evidently perceptible in human nature. Saints or no saints- we all get drenched once in a while in guilty charges of human aspirations and mistakes oftentimes unforgivable. We need a third party to blame as we cannot holdContinue reading "Desire is Destruction"

Issues that need to be talked about

Life comes with an unrealistic package of decorous and celebrated stature that every eyeball wants to spot and eulogize. We uphold delusions and live a life constantly craving for reassuring words and taut hugs. It’s not wrong to want something, it is wrong to make it your ultimate goal. There are things happening around andContinue reading "Issues that need to be talked about"

Raising Kids in Today’s World

Something that we always hear from our parents and grandparents is that how they have struggled to raise their kids during their time when there was no luxury and latest technology. A time when people survived on family values, socializing with relatives and keeping themselves busy for days together for a festival or a specialContinue reading "Raising Kids in Today’s World"

Have an Ambition in Life

Life is short, uncertain and unpredictable. We need to make a choice; do we want to survive or do we want to live? People often get lost in the bewilderment of constant slogging, providing and saving the rest. There is no true happiness or purpose behind it. We certainly know the destination, but we doContinue reading "Have an Ambition in Life"

Mental Health Is As Important As Physical Health

Going to a psychiatrist or a psychologist has always been associated with a person either being crazy or abnormal. The stigma that society still holds regarding mental health is that it’s something that needs to be buried from the world and something that need not be discussed with a professional or seek medical health. PeopleContinue reading "Mental Health Is As Important As Physical Health"

Celebrate Womanhood

We don’t need a particular day to feel privileged or cherished. Womanhood is all about celebrating each day of our lives, knowing the fact that we already are exceptional. Women are one of the most gorgeous creations of Allah. A blessed combo of tough bodies with powerful minds, women could bring radical reformation in theContinue reading "Celebrate Womanhood"